Thursday, July 7, 2016

Delete or Destroy?


Delete... Comes from the Latin deletus, past participle of delēre to wipe out, destroy.  The simple modern version of the word Delete: to remove (something, such as words, pictures, or computer files) from a document, recording, computer, etc. is much nicer.  However can this little button impact our lives as the root implies?

Deleting is necessary sometimes when we need to wipe the slate clean and move on.  Like the 19,7470 unread emails (mostly spam) sitting in that account from when you thought BaddAss9@ or PrettySexy1@ was a cool email.  Then when your resume was the focus, kmsmith@ became your preferred choice.  Or removing those contacts in your phone that you haven't called in 5 years.  Yes, you meant it when after 12 tequila shots you and your new best friend that you had everything in common with Pat decided to hike the Rockies but it just never happened.

So is deletion really about letting go?  If someone deletes you as a "contact" or a "friend", never picks up when you call they aren't worth your time.  If they bombard you with negative input they steal your time.  Or is it knowing when to delete instead of send or post? Its all fun and games until someone blurts out something at the wrong time or someone misinterprets what we meant.  We've all probably been or will at some point be a part of that nightmare.  We encapsulate our lives in electronic bubbles; e-mail, text, comments, etc.  Deleting is a defensive move at best.  We need to think before we send, save or post or even type!  That send button is easy to hit by mistake and once it's out there, its out there. 

Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Boxes of Possibilities...




As they say; "Today is a Gift; that's why they call it the Present".  Understanding that statement takes a balance of life experience to say the least. Too little and your impatience gets the best of you and if there been too much you may be jaded and miss the point as well.  Living in the "Present" means you can let go of the burdens and guilt of what was or wasn't and revel in the possibilities of today.  The future is never promised and what you do today will create it anyway.  So it's OK to step back a little bit to resurrect and open a few of the boxes of possibilities you may have waiting to act on.  But do something and move forward, because living in the past hasn't gotten you anywhere now has it?  DMT 

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